Choices

A week or so ago a good friend of mine posted the following quote as his facebook status and it made me start thinking...

"There's the easy choice....the comfortable choice....then there's the right choice"

As some may know I've been going through a point in my life where I have been having to make some tough decisions and choices about my life.  My question and concern is how do you distinguish between the easy.. the comfortable.. and the right choices?

I've been looking back at past decisions and wondering why I made them... was I trying to take the easy way out? Was it the most comfortable track to run? or did I truly believe at the time that it was the right choice?

The problem is I don't think there is ever any real way to determine what is the right choice you just have to do what feels right to you at that point in your life and hopefully in the end it turns out to be the correct choice.  And if it isnt most of the time there is always a chance to make it right. Just dont be afraid to do what is going to make you happy in life because nothing else matters!

Dream Date...

So for those of you who know me you know that I am slightly obsessed with the show BONES... and the other day I was watching old episodes on netflix and watched the episode when Hodgins and Angela go on their first date and it got me thinking about dates... first dates...dream dates... best dates.... so I thought I'd share mine...

My first official date was in 7th grade and took place at Incredible Ice in Coral Springs.  It was a lot of fun ice skating around the rink with my date and holding hands and it was even better when my best friend Lisa showed up with her sister lmao.  I was an innocent child so the night didn't end with anything more than maybe a hug before I was picked up from the rink.  (Not like most 7th graders these days which is sad...) It was cute and must have been somewhat good since I remember it lol.

As far as my dream date.. I've been asked this many times throughout the years and I never really was sure how to answer but this is what I have come up with at this point and it's only slightly because of the BONES episode I was watching lol.  I like things to be simple they don't need to be extravagant or expensive or completely over done.  I like the idea of keeping things young and bringing me back to one of my favorite things to do as a child. SWINGS!!! As a child and even into my teen years one of my favorite things to do was go to the park and swing on the swing set.  So if I had to say now my dream date would consist of going to a park and walking around and playing on the swings while talking and just enjoying each others company with no distractions and no huge crowds. Just the two of us under the stars playing on the swings like we're kids again!

My best date... this is a hard one because I've been on a lot of fun dates and even a few truly romantic ones.. but I'm going to go with the melting pot with my now husband Mike... we went there to celebrate our first year of dating and it was a great combination of fun and romance.  And the gift he gave me (a promise ring) wasn't half bad either lol...

People put so much pressure on making dates so perfect by spending so much money and making them over the top and I don't feel like that is really necessary.  

This is just something I was thinking about feel free to share your thoughts...

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